Imagine a beautiful woman comes to you and asks you what time it is.

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That rejection might have bothered you for a while, and maybe you were even embarrassed to run into her later.

You were avoiding her for a while, but lately it looks like she is being more friendly with you than usual and you suspect that she might actually be interested in you now. First of all, people change their mind all the time.

Should you be asking out the girl who rejected you in the past again? The girl might have not wanted to go out with you before for a number of reasons.

At the moment when you approached her initially, she wasn’t quite ready to talk to you or didn’t know how to handle the situation and went into a safe “no, thank you” mode instead of dealing with the natural awkwardness of the situation and allowing things to warm up between the two of you.

But later, she realized that she actually would like to go out with the guy who asked her out and that she didn’t really mean to reject him.

Think about how you react when a stranger initiates a conversation with you by surprise.

Almost subconsciously you try to cut the conversation short and move on, because you believe it’s the right thing to do and that’s the social norm.

It’s possible that she was seeing someone at that time or that she had a bad break up with her boyfriend at about that time when you first approached her and expressing interest in getting to know her.

Maybe she was just not in the right to be thinking about guys and dating when you asked her out.