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Texting has become an integral part of our communication these days that just like emailing a set of etiquettes needs to be established. Vary your response time, be a little unpredictable. If he texts you regularly, you can initiate once (as a part of being unpredictable) say for every 5-6 texts he initiates. Be direct cause guys don’t like reading long messages. You want a guy who steps up and leads so if he’s slacking in his way of communication, you taking charge in the matter won’t make him want to do it more.Believe it or not, guys sense your character and personality and judge you through your texting habits so a mishap here and there might kill a blooming interest on their part. Sometimes you wait a day, some other times a few hours, sometimes right away. If he texts you “good morning” or “good night” every day, beat him to the punch one morning/evening by doing it first. Quite the opposite it dampens his motivation to do so. Be imaginative, creative, witty and flirtatious in your response. ” you can instead say “tell me something that makes my knees weak” or something playful like “do you know that kissing burns 68 calories/hr? I need something stiff.” But don’t overdo it either ’cause then you appear overacting.
That’s the sort of woman he perceives as high-value and worth pursuing. If he gives you an emoticon as a response for example, say a smiley, it’s time to end the convo by saying nothing back. Don’t initiate text if he hasn’t texted you in a while.
When he is, it means he’s thinking about you and a guy likes a woman he can’t help thinking of.
When you make a guy wonder ’cause you are not easy to figure out or read, you make him intrigued.
Remember, scarcity and mystery are parts of attraction.
If you answered yes and are wondering should I text him, then probably no. I certainly didn’t wonder should I text him or not.
He stops calling and texting exactly because of that (and some other reasons as outlined here). When he first texted me, it took me a day to respond and honestly it wasn’t on purpose but I simply wasn’t hooked to my cellphone.
” If the majority to your answers is YES, girl, you really need to read this because likelihood is you have been pushing away so many guys because you simply don’t act like a high-value woman. He wants what other men want and what he has to work for to have. Not just texting but also I’m scarce in other means of communication as well.
Do you always write in long paragraphs, get too much into detail (something that has to be reserved for in-person or phone conversation) and use many abbreviations that not everyone understands? Do you often get no response or a very short one like “k? Needy, clingy and insecure ’cause you need a lot of attention and constant validation/assurance. A man wants a prize, whether or not he wants to admit it.
Uninteresting because you are way too available and have too much time on your hands; you don’t have a life. You may or may not, the point is when you emit that kind of aura, your value soars in a man’s eyes.
I become the “elusive” confident woman who has too much an exciting life to tend to texting (learn more about the timeless art of being “hard to get” that will drive him crazy with desire for you).
And it has worked because it changes the vibe I project out and what is perceived by guys.